Modern American dating is no more than glorified divorce practice. Young people are learning how to give themselves away in exclusive, romantic, highly committed (at times sexual) relationships, only to break up and do it all over again. God never intended for His kids to live like this. And instead of stepping in and doing something, many Christian parents simply view these types of relationships as a normal and necessary part of growing up. Unless your child is wiser than Solomon, stronger than Samson, and more godly than David (all of whom sinned sexually), they are susceptible to sexual sin, and these premature relationships serve as open invitations. . . . Being involved in such exclusive relationships before you are ready to be married is like shopping without any money; either you will leave frustrated, or you will take something that doesn’t belong to you.
- Voddie Baucham
1 comment:
Jamie,
I appreciate this post.
As a youth, I had been through True Love Waits twice in intensive weekends and lengthy Wed. Night Studies.
It never addressed dating. Always the question was: How Far Is Too Far? It never addressed the emotional attachment and let down of dating seriously.
Too, as Voddie points out, the culture knows nothing different.
Worth addressing, I imagine...
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